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What shocked me


alroikaAug 29, 2005 3:38pm
was this web page: sixteenflavors.com/enfp.php [sixteenflavors.com/enfp.php]

i mean i got the chills from reading that page because paragraph after paragraph i could just read things written about me without ever even seeing me personally or hearing anything about me. i mean this is crazy! man, how can it match that well?

anyway one thing that made me wonder on this page was that it suggested two different Introverts as the best proposed counterpart in a relationship. what i don't understand is that why two extroverts wouldn't fit together as well as an extrovert and an introvert, because that's what i personally feel. well come to think of it the girls i've really liked i think have been pretty much introverts. but, at least what i personally have thought that i would match really well with an extrovert, because of being alike and sharing the same type of being open and loving to meet new people etc... what do you think?


kcretenNov 27, 2005 3:18am
Hi there. I'm sorry it took so long. I didn't know I had a message! :) I strongly feel that people should marry people that are most like them. From my small sample base, I've seems that works best. The "marry your opposite" idea is pretty whacky to me. :) So, I'm honest, a fairly nice person, say. So, should I be with someone who's dishonest, and maybe mean? I'm not sure where the idea that it's best to be with an opposite came from. So, there's my opinion. Let me know what you think.


Slider77Jan 30, 2006 7:02pm
I consider myself sane... for the most part. I dated my opposite for close to 7 years. She was NUTS! I am sure she is still nuts. I think that had a lot to do with my ideals of loyalty. I should of booked out when she first started showing signs.


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cynthia-nekomataMar 28, 2007 5:37pm
Well, the idea behind having extroverts going with introverts is that (theoretically) both parties will be focused on the introvert, so there (theoretically) won't be a clash of interest.


petersenbristowJan 28, 4:51pm
I'm ENFp and married to an ESFj, who tends to be a little t at times too. We have our moments where it all seems hopeless, but for the better part, I think it's a really good match. There's a really strong bond between us.


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